So many people let others change their mind or make their choices. I would like to say I am surprised at this but sadly I see it all the time when parents with “help” their kids (adult kids, at that). I mostly see this with Network marketing. I will touch on Network Marketing at a later date. Point is people put others on a pedestal and they value their opinion. Valuing opinions is great; putting people on a pedestal is not.
If they are on a pedestal, they take your power; you tend to value their opinion over your own. People need to look at the outcome they want and only take advice from people who have achieved that outcome. This will help make sure that emotion is not swaying your decision. Everyone lacks confidence here and there, just ask yourself has anyone else done this; because then you give yourself the answers you truly seek.